THEY LOVE THEIR FATHER MORE THAN ME- LADY CRIES OUT, SEEK FOR ADVICE

Another call out post from a lady in a popular group on Facebook named Rant HQ extension. According to her, she divorced her ex-husband in which they had four children together. They both share their children amongst themselves and she feels they don’t love her.

According to her statement 

“I am a divorcee. My ex-husband and I called it quits 7 years ago. We share our 4 children amongst ourselves. They stay with me on weekdays and go to their father on weekends. He pays their school fees and sends weekly money for their upkeep. I have observed that my children love their father more than me. When it is time for them to come to me, they are sad. The last one even cries.

But when it’s my ex-husband’s turn, they pack their bags early and are in a hurry to go to him. Their father cheated on me and I have told the older ones that that’s the reason we divorced. Despite knowing this and going to their father and his girlfriend, they still love him more than me. 

The last time he called me to ask me why I have told the children about his infidelity and I don’t see anything wrong with doing that. They wanted to know why we divorced. He feels like I am trying to paint him black in front of the children but all I have done is tell them the truth. 

I want to know some things I can do to make them love me more. I suspect that he tells the children bad things about me. I have asked them and they all said he doesn’t say anything about me but I have that feeling because I try so hard to make them love me but my 15-year-old son talks back at me. Meanwhile, he never does that to his father. 

How do I make them see him for who he really is? How do I get the love of my children? When I see how they relate with him, I get so bitter and depressed. He caused me pain but he is the one the kids prefer. I feel it’s not fair.”

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